Dil to hai dil, dil kaa aitabaar, kyaa kiijai
Aa gayaa jo, kisii pe pyaar, kyaa kiijai
Beqaraarii, mein hai iqaraar, kyaa kiijai
Aa gayaa jo, kisii pe pyaar, kyaa kiijai
Definetely this Valentine day I'm sure it will be special for all. For those in love as well as for those who are still single and searching...
Love is definetely a beautiful feeling and comes from within specially if you love yourself. Ususally, its like a dream being woven around you without your realisation where you love everything about the other person.
Even if you are single its love that you need to surround your self with by gifting and pampering yourself as though there is none other than you. There is not a reason why you would need any one else when you can talk to your own inner self - extract the real you. Love this real you more than your spouse, your parents, your kids or any one in this world can.
'Dil to pagal hai' a bollywod film had a short episode where the actress gifted herself every year with gifts just because she loved herself.
Love has had no boundaries or do's and don'ts when you love yourelf. Everything else is a reflection of you. No one but you would see reason to fall in love with the person you have. The reasons can be many, its for you to find out and discover the true meaning of love. Love makes you selfless. No i'm not talking of losing identity - its about gaining a new one, more stronger and meaningful. This feeling of belonging to the other definetely gives more strength and gives life more meaning than all the odd little relationships one shares with the 'others'. However, I do not state that one should forget about the love you share with them.
Go on love youself. Love one love all this Valentine. Share the little love you have and feel it grow!!!
© Rekha Kumar